(repost) Beware or Be Aware!

Have you known a person who has

a WITHDRAWN PATTERN of personality?
You might not even know you are...
unless you consider this following characters

or even attitudes in you or in them.

This sounds interesting right?

• they long to be liked, but are convinced that they are unlikeable. their most common feeling is sadness.
• they are prone to feelings of inferiority, panic attacks, shame, sadness and self-pity.
• they always pursue the course of greatest safety. which is to take no risks whatever. They draw an imaginary circle around themselves which no one can penetrate.
• if they are called upon to speak, their minds can go blank. They avoid direct eye contact, only by active withdrawal can they protect themselves.

This sounds more interesting...I've known person who possessed this attitudes...(hhhmmm.. I admit that i was one like them, even up to present (lol) yuh! sometimes...)

• their goals are negative; not to be involved; not to need anyone; NOT TO ALLOW OTHERS TO INFLUENCE THEM.
• they discount compliments believing that people are putting them on. They see others as setting them up for ridicule.

This one is a tragedy,

• their desires for affection are repressed and constrained. Life is a big party, and by all means,, they can never attend.

Reminder:

People can stay stuck in rigid personality patterns for decades or even a lifetime. Well, if symptoms persists consult the helping professionals.

Does it help you? Want to know more?

The Dependent Pattern, The Aggressive Pattern, and the Controlling Pattern will come next!

So keep on visiting my site! Till then my FRIENDS! & Take Care